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Scenario

How divorced parents handle letters written during marriage

My ex-husband and I wrote letters to each other throughout our marriage that we planned to give our daughter when she turned eighteen, but now that we're divorced we disagree completely about whether those letters still represent who we want to be for her.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The parents they were when they wrote in love now conflicts with the parents they're trying to become in separation.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The letters and journals you leave?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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