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When family intellectual traditions have hidden hierarchies

My family does this thing where we have intense political discussions that we all say we enjoy, but my brother and I have noticed that certain topics get quickly redirected and some people's views get more airtime than others. We're wondering how to name this pattern without blowing up what is generally a good thing.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A family practice of vigorous debate is actually structured around unacknowledged power dynamics that limit whose voices are truly heard.

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