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When couples fight about money but it's not really about money

My husband and I fight about money constantly but we've never actually sat down and talked about what money meant in our families growing up or what we're really afraid of. We just argue about the credit card bill and whether to buy organic groceries while these huge unspoken things hang between us.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are having the same surface argument over and over because they haven't named the deeper fears and values that are actually in conflict.

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