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Scenario

When couples disagree about academic pressure and achievement expectations

My husband and I keep fighting about how hard to push our kids — he says I'm becoming my mother with all the pressure about grades and activities, but he doesn't understand that without structure they'll never reach their potential. We're pulling them in opposite directions and I can see it's confusing our daughter.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two parents are caught between cultural inheritance and conscious choice, unable to find shared ground on how much to demand from their children.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Tiger parenting — East Asian model examined?”

Peri

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