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Scenario

How to divide elder care responsibilities among siblings

My mom is getting older and needs more help but my brother lives across the country and my sister has three kids and somehow I've become the default person for everything. We've never actually sat down and talked about how to share this or what we're each able to do.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A family is operating on unspoken assumptions about caregiving that are creating resentment and leaving everyone feeling either overburdened or guilty.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Punishment consequences and natural boundaries?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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