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Scenario

How to break generational patterns when only one person wants change

My mother and I have been locked in the same power struggle for decades and I can see that my teenage daughter is starting to rebel against me in the exact same way, and I desperately want to break this cycle but I don't know how to change the dance when my mother isn't willing to examine her part.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Someone recognizes a harmful family pattern repeating but faces resistance from others who are invested in maintaining familiar dynamics.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The examined question — what do I want to leave??”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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