My mother-in-law moved in to help with the baby but she keeps taking over in ways that make me feel like I'm failing as a new mom, and my husband doesn't see it because he's grateful for the help. Every time I try to establish my own routine with feeding or soothing, she jumps in with 'let me show you' and I'm starting to feel like a guest in my own experience of becoming a mother.
More people experience this than they realize.
The need for support collides with the equally vital need to claim your own competence as a new parent.
“Where Are You with The newborn phase — survival and attachment?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.