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Scenario

When extended family arrangements become permanent

My mother-in-law moved in with us during COVID and never left and my spouse keeps saying 'it's temporary' but it's been two years and I'm starting to resent both of them.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Three adults are living in an arrangement that no one explicitly chose, with different assumptions about what was agreed to.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Peri

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