My mother is getting older and needs more help but my brother lives across the country and I'm the one here dealing with everything and we've never actually talked about how this is supposed to work long-term. Every phone call feels like I'm complaining and he's making excuses and neither of us knows how to have the real conversation about what's fair.
More people experience this than they realize.
Distance and circumstances create an imbalance that no one chose but everyone resents.
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