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When couples disagree about raising children without religion

My partner and I both left organized religion years ago but we're expecting our first child and we keep having these circular conversations about how to give them meaning and tradition without the framework that shaped us — and we're realizing we have no idea what values we actually want to pass down versus what we're just reacting against.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're discovering that rejecting old forms of meaning doesn't automatically create new ones, and the stakes feel impossibly high when another life depends on your choices.

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