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When couples disagree on how to handle difficult neighbors

My partner and I bought a house in what we thought was a quiet neighborhood but our next-door neighbors have turned their backyard into what feels like a constant party zone and when we've tried to talk to them about it they act like we're the unreasonable ones for wanting to sleep at night.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're discovering that building a life somewhere means navigating not just your own needs but the competing claims of others who were there first or see the space differently.

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“Where Are You with Neighborhood and place-based belonging?”

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