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When couples create time capsules during happy times but face marriage struggles later

My partner and I buried a time capsule on our wedding day with letters we wrote to ourselves for our 25th anniversary, but now we're going through a really rough patch and I'm terrified of what we wrote when we were so hopeful. We have three years left and I don't know if we should dig it up early or if that would make everything worse.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The gap between who you were when you made promises to the future and who you've become creates a reckoning that can't be faced alone.

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“Where Are You with Time capsules and messages to the future?”

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