My partner and I have been saying we want kids 'someday' for three years but every time we try to actually plan for it one of us finds a reason to wait — my career, their graduate school, the apartment, money — and I'm starting to wonder if we're both just scared and using logistics as an excuse.
More people experience this than they realize.
The endless deferral of parenthood has become a way to avoid confronting deeper fears about readiness and commitment.
“Where Are You with The decision to become a parent?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.