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Scenario

When couples can't decide about having children

My partner and I have been talking about having kids for two years but we keep having the same circular conversation where neither of us wants to be the one to say definitively yes or no. We're both waiting for the other person to feel more certain and meanwhile time is passing and we're not getting anywhere.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are trapped in a decision-making loop where both are waiting for clarity that can only emerge through the very commitment they're avoiding.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Punishment consequences and natural boundaries?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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