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Scenario

When stepparents feel excluded by the co-parent

My partner and I have been together three years and his ex-wife still treats me like I'm temporary — won't include me in school events, refers to their house as 'the real home' — and my partner says he understands but keeps asking me to just be patient while she adjusts.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are caught between honoring an existing co-parenting relationship and building legitimate space for a new partnership.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Stepparenting and blended family dynamics?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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