My partner and I have been trying to decide about having kids for two years and we keep having the same circular conversations where I say I'm not sure and they say they definitely want children and we both end up feeling like we're waiting for the other person to change their mind. We love each other but this feels like it might be the thing that breaks us.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are discovering that their fundamental desires for their shared future may be incompatible, and neither wants to be the one to end what they both value.
“Where Are You with The decision to become a parent?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.