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Scenario

When couples disagree on trauma-informed discipline strategies

My partner and I keep fighting about discipline approaches with our adopted daughter who has attachment trauma and it's like we're living in two different worlds about what 'helping' even means — I feel like we're losing each other in the process of trying to help her.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people who love the same child are discovering that their instinctive responses to behavioral challenges are fundamentally incompatible, and their relationship is fracturing under the weight of constant second-guessing.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Trauma-informed parenting?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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