My partner and I keep fighting about discipline approaches with our adopted daughter who has attachment trauma and it's like we're living in two different worlds about what 'helping' even means — I feel like we're losing each other in the process of trying to help her.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people who love the same child are discovering that their instinctive responses to behavioral challenges are fundamentally incompatible, and their relationship is fracturing under the weight of constant second-guessing.
“Where Are You with Trauma-informed parenting?”
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