My partner and I keep having the same fight about screen time and discipline and bedtime and I can see that we're really fighting about how we were each parented — but we can't seem to get underneath it to the actual conversation about what we want to be different.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are trying to parent together while their unexamined childhood experiences create recurring conflict about how to raise their children.
“Where Are You with The parent's inner life — what children bring up?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.