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When couples avoid discussing what patterns to leave behind

My partner and I keep talking about what kind of life we want to build together but we've never actually discussed what from our past relationships and family patterns we need to actively leave behind, and I think we're both carrying forward things that are quietly undermining what we say we want.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are building a future together without examining what they need to release from their past.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The examined question — what do I want to leave??”

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