My roommate and I have lived together for three years and she's been dating someone who basically lives here now without paying rent or asking, and every time I bring it up she gets defensive and says I'm being controlling, but I feel like I'm losing my own home.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are negotiating competing needs for autonomy and consideration, but old agreements no longer fit current realities.
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