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When friends discover they're incompatible as roommates

My roommates and I moved in together as friends but living together has shown us that we have really different ideas about cleanliness and money and having people over. We love each other but we're starting to get on each other's nerves and nobody wants to be the one who brings up that maybe this isn't working.

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