My siblings and I have been stuck in the same roles and resentments since childhood and now that our kids are watching us interact I realize we're modeling something I don't want to pass down, but none of us knows how to step out of these patterns we've been locked in for thirty years.
More people experience this than they realize.
A family system is perpetuating dynamics that everyone recognizes as harmful but no one knows how to exit.
“Where Are You with The examined question — what do I want to leave??”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.