My sister and I are both dealing with our mom's alcoholism but she thinks we should stage an intervention and I think we should just stop enabling her, and meanwhile Mom is getting worse and we're spending more energy fighting each other than actually helping her.
More people experience this than they realize.
Competing approaches to helping someone self-destructive can fracture the very relationships needed to provide effective support.
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