Periagoge
Scenario

When siblings can't agree on whether tiger parenting helped or harmed them

My sister and I are both raising kids now and we cannot agree on whether our parents' strict approach damaged us or saved us — she's doing gentle parenting and I'm more traditional and our kids are cousins who see the difference and ask questions we don't know how to answer.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Adult children are trying to make sense of their upbringing while their own parenting choices become a referendum on their shared past.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Tiger parenting — East Asian model examined?”

Peri

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