My sister and I are co-executors of Mom's estate and we keep disagreeing about whether to sell the family business or try to keep it running, and I think she's making decisions based on what Mom would have wanted while I'm looking at what's actually practical, and we're both getting frustrated because we have to sign off on everything together.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people trying to honor the same person's memory are discovering they have fundamentally different approaches to stewardship and responsibility.
“Where Are You with Wills trusts and inheritance structures?”
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