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Scenario

When siblings with babies struggle with comparison and competition

My sister and I both have babies under a year old and we thought it would bring us closer but instead we keep comparing everything - who's sleeping better, who's hitting milestones first, whose recovery was harder. We used to talk about everything but now every conversation feels loaded with judgment and competition that neither of us is naming.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The intensity of early motherhood can turn even the closest relationships into mirrors that reflect back every insecurity.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The newborn phase — survival and attachment?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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