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Scenario

When siblings disagree about caring for aging parents

My sister and I both live near our aging mother and we have completely different ideas about how much help she needs — I think she should move to assisted living and my sister thinks we can manage helping her stay in her house, but neither of us can do it alone.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people who love the same person are discovering that love doesn't automatically create consensus about care.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Permissive parenting and its outcomes?”

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