My sister and I have been taking care of Mom together for three years and we have completely different approaches — I want to hire more help and she wants to keep doing everything ourselves — and we're both exhausted but can't agree on what exhausted even means. It's starting to feel like we're failing her and each other.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people who love the same person are discovering that love doesn't automatically create alignment about how to show it.
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