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When family historians grapple with sanitized versus honest legacy

My sister and I have been the family historians by default, but we realized we've been unconsciously protecting certain people and sanitizing certain stories, and now we're wondering if we have a responsibility to tell the harder truths even if it complicates things for the next generation.

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The urge to protect future generations from difficult truths conflicts with the deeper obligation to leave them something real.

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