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Scenario

When siblings disagree about eldercare approaches

My sister and I take turns caring for our aging mother but we have completely different philosophies about independence versus safety, and Mom plays us against each other sometimes when she doesn't like our decisions. We all love each other but we're exhausted and starting to snap at each other over everything.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The particular exhaustion of loving someone whose needs exceed your capacity, while navigating family dynamics that predate the crisis.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Parenting as legacy — what you pass through children?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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