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When long-term couples realize they've lost emotional intimacy

My spouse and I have been married for fifteen years and we've gotten really good at managing life together but somewhere along the way we stopped actually enjoying each other's company. We're efficient roommates who love our kids but I can't remember the last time we laughed together or had a conversation that wasn't about logistics.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

They've built a successful partnership while accidentally letting their connection wither, and neither knows how to find their way back without dismantling what works.

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