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When multigenerational living arrangements become complicated

My spouse and I moved in with my aging mother during COVID and never left, and now we're all driving each other crazy but we're also scared to change the arrangement because Mom clearly needs the help and we can't afford our old place anymore. We're all pretending this is working better than it is.

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