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When parents and teens get stuck in painful cycles

My teenage daughter and I have been in this cycle for two years where she pulls away, I chase, she gets angry, I get hurt, and we both end up feeling like the other person doesn't understand us at all. We used to be close and now every conversation feels like walking through a minefield.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The very efforts to stay connected can become the thing that drives you apart when neither person knows how to break the pattern.

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