My teenage daughter and I keep having the same fight about her phone and screen time and we're both so tired of it but neither of us knows how to stop. She thinks I don't trust her and I think she doesn't understand the real world yet and we're both probably right.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are trapped in a dynamic where both of their truths are valid but incompatible, and the fighting has become more important than the original issue.
“Where Are You with Confucian filial piety — examined?”
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