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When co-parents disagree on boundaries with teenagers

My teenage daughter and I used to be really close but lately every conversation turns into a fight and my partner thinks I'm being too rigid while I think they're being too permissive. We're all walking on eggshells and I can see that our daughter is playing us against each other, but we can't seem to get on the same page.

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Inconsistent parenting approaches are creating triangulation that undermines everyone's relationships.

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