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Scenario

When immigrant families disagree on preserving cultural identity with teens

My teenage daughter refuses to speak our language at home anymore and gets angry when we have family gatherings with our community, saying she's tired of feeling 'between worlds' — and my husband thinks we should just let her be American while I feel like we're losing her to a culture that will never fully accept her anyway.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Parents are navigating the tension between honoring their heritage and allowing their child to forge her own path to belonging.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Belonging for immigrants and refugees?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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