My teenage kids and I are all still adjusting to life after their dad moved out and we've developed some habits and routines that work for us but when they go to his house everything is different and they come back confused and sometimes upset and I don't know how to help them navigate having two homes with different rules and values.
More people experience this than they realize.
The children are bearing the emotional labor of translating between two different family systems without the tools or support to process what that means.
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