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When job loss turns close friends into reluctant competitors

My three closest friends from work and I all got laid off in the same round of cuts six months ago and we keep meeting for coffee to 'support each other' but it's become this competitive thing where we compare job search progress and I can feel us starting to see each other as competition instead of support. None of us knows how to talk about it.

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