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When close friends start dating and change the friend group dynamic

My two closest friends have started dating each other and while I'm happy for them, it's changing the entire dynamic of our friendship triangle in ways that feel confusing and sometimes exclusionary. I don't want to be the third wheel but I also don't want to lose these friendships that have been central to my life for years.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A person is watching their emotional home base reorganize itself around a new center of gravity that doesn't include them.

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