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Scenario

When couples disagree about what family legacy to pass down

My wife and I are trying to figure out what we want to pass down to our kids about my father, who died when they were babies, but we disagree about how much of his struggles with addiction should be part of that story. We both want to honor his memory but we have completely different ideas about what honoring him means.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Deciding what truths about the dead to carry forward requires choosing between competing definitions of honor, love, and protection.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with What you take with you — the inner legacy that death carries away?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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