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How to share hosting responsibilities in friend groups

My wife and I have been hosting weekly dinners for our chosen family of friends for almost five years and it's become this beautiful tradition, but lately we're feeling overwhelmed by always being the ones to organize and host while also not wanting to give up something that brings us all so much joy. We haven't figured out how to share this responsibility without it feeling like we're complaining or being demanding.

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Two people are carrying the weight of maintaining community connection and struggling to ask for help without seeming ungrateful for what they've created.

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