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Scenario

When family gatherings feel like performance instead of connection

Our adult kids come home for holidays and immediately fall back into old family roles and patterns, and my spouse thinks it's fine and I feel like we're all pretending to be people we're not anymore just to keep the peace.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A family is maintaining closeness through scripts that no longer fit who they've each become.

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Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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