Periagoge
Scenario

When friend groups struggle to redistribute emotional labor

Our book club has been meeting at the same member's house for two years but she's going through a divorce and doesn't want to host anymore, and now we're all pretending to look for alternatives while secretly hoping someone else will volunteer their space. The awkwardness is starting to overshadow the actual books.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

How we can all want community while simultaneously avoiding the work of creating and maintaining it.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Third places — bars libraries parks barbershops?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.