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When long-running groups evolve but members never discuss whether everyone is still aligned

Our book club has been meeting for five years and lately it's become more of a social hour where we barely discuss the books, which some people love and others find frustrating. We've never talked about what we actually want this group to be and everyone just assumes others feel the same way they do about the changes.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The group has organically shifted but no one has checked whether this evolution serves everyone's needs.

Ideas that help explain it
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