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How friend groups lose their original purpose without noticing

Our book club started five years ago as actual friends but somewhere along the way it became this performative thing where we all pretend to have read the book and have these shallow discussions, and no one knows how to get back to what we originally wanted.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The drift from authentic connection to social performance happens so gradually that calling it out feels like breaking an unspoken contract.

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