Our close friends keep asking when we're going to have kids and my husband always deflects but I know we both feel the pressure, and the truth is we genuinely don't know if we want children but we've never said that out loud to each other. It feels like everyone around us just assumes it's inevitable and we're starting to feel like we're disappointing people by not being sure.
More people experience this than they realize.
External expectations about parenthood are creating pressure to perform certainty about a life choice that remains genuinely unresolved between partners.
“Where Are You with The philosophy of parenthood — why and what for?”
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