Our extended family always does Christmas at my aunt's house and she's getting older and can't really host anymore, but no one wants to be the person who suggests we change everything. We're all just watching her struggle and pretending it's fine.
More people experience this than they realize.
The fear of disrupting tradition is keeping everyone from addressing a loved one's changing needs.
“Where Are You with Digital legacy — your online presence after death?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.