Our extended family gatherings have become tense because some of the parents are very achievement-focused with their kids and others are trying to break the cycle, and the kids are starting to compare and the adults are judging each other's choices without saying it directly.
More people experience this than they realize.
A family system is fracturing along generational and philosophical lines about what children need to thrive.
“Where Are You with Tiger parenting — East Asian model examined?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.