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Scenario

When families must choose between unity and values

Our family always gets together for holidays but this year my uncle said some really racist things at Thanksgiving and half of us want to uninvite him from Christmas and half think we should try to educate him instead. We're all afraid that whatever we decide will split the family permanently.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A group is learning that keeping peace and keeping integrity sometimes require different choices.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Memento mori across traditions?”

Peri

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