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Scenario

When friend groups are held back by someone who won't let old conflicts go

Our friend group from high school still gets together a few times a year, but one person always brings up old drama and grievances from twenty years ago while the rest of us want to just enjoy each other now — and it's starting to feel like we can't move forward because she won't let us leave the past behind.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A group is discovering that shared history can become a prison when one person's need to relitigate the past conflicts with everyone else's desire to grow beyond it.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Parenting through your own mental health challenges?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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